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[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 9 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 4 fun10 insightful - 5 fun -  (3 children)

I tried to mimic men and pretend to be a man, so homophobia stops, as everyone said I am wrong in loving women, and I thought it is very wrong for me to be born like that. And most women were not loving women too, so I thought that it will be impossible to marry or date any woman. And I had other problems with misogyny - like not getting job as "woman engineer/programmer? Ha ha", all the disrespect from society and limited possibilities compared to men. So I thought I should be just a man really - to stop homophobia, to find a woman to date and to feel myself like a real human being. I did not know a lot about sexuality at all (I am from former USSR, so there was no information about homosexuality and homophobic propaganda was saying that it is something learned, not something innate - so I thought if I pretend to be a man, then heterosexual women would love me too, and it all was before internet was a big thing). I spent like 10-15 years self-hating because of those reasons, until met amazing lesbian woman, who explained me a lot and tought how to love myself.

So I am not surprised with some "transmen gay men" who are surprised and very sad when gay mend do not want them, as they are reminding me myself - they are just lied to and they genuinely think it is how it will work. Thought in age of internet it is easier to find correct answers, but today everything LGB-connected is tainted with gender ideology, like lesbian sites or guides of lesbian sex - all include men with penises and sex with "girl dicks". So maybe it is confusing to them.

I guess that is why Tavistock data showing that 90% of girls and 80% of boys who are put on puberty blockers or cross-sex hormones - are homosexual or bisexual: https://i.imgur.com/9JdC6nN.jpg

It is mass-gay conversion therapy movement.

I am pretty sure I'd be transman if I was born 15 years later, and then I'd be regreting transition for the rest of my life.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 7 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 5 fun -  (2 children)

I would still suck your big clitoris, anyway ;)

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 7 insightful - 6 fun7 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

Elvy, stahp!

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 7 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Can't never stop thinking of you, my empress.