Oh man, I actually thought about her arguments until she, without realizing I suppose, gave herself away.

The point is this: coming out means your identity is fixed. And when you can't decide whether you're this or that label today, and you come out as 10 different things in the span of a year, it's embarrassing. So the entire concept of coming out, of fixed identity, of homosexuality, is wrong. She wrote this entire article to justify not being embarrassed 😳🤣