There’s a dominant cultural vision of what a coming out story looks like: a young person (most likely a cis white gay man) sits their parents down and tearfully tells them they are gay/queer.

Right off the bat, I know it's Woke BS. "cis white" --- let the struggle session begin.

However we cannot escape the fact that, generally, it is cis gay identities and not the vast spectrum of queer identities which have been given the biggest platform.

That sums up the whole thing. They demand the biggest platform. How dare the gay movement be about gay people!