What sub did you post that on?

I still very much appreciate being able to marry my gf when we're ready but you're not off base. As many here have pointed out, all the 'queers' popped up once it was no longer inconvenient to be gay. I know a straight couple who got married in 2012 and now the girl has transed herself and now they claim to be a gay couple. Me and my gf used to hang out with them from 2011-2013ish in college. Funny how she wasn't a gay man at all when it would've been inconvenient and my gf and I had to go down the list of ~4 states and debate whether we should move to one of them or leave the US altogether. It's definitely one of the things I appreciate about being an old les--I can easily call out my peers who are so 'queer' now who were not at all gay anything back in high school and college (when there was no question of queer being a slur).

Also, I have to give credit to one of my old friends. She transitioned back in 2011-2012ish, changed over all documentation and became a man on paper. She was already in a LTR with a dude and they got married as soon as gay marriage became legal. She opted-in to the struggle way before it became cool and they never lectured or went on about political queer gender shit. I can't do anything but respect that.