I’m neither on the left, nor the right. Well, I have views that are right wing and views that are left wing. And there are nutters on both the left, the right and the centre. Being a social justice warrior or a purity spiralist is not an ideology, it’s a mentality. And people with such extreme views are often either shielded from reality (like your woke "friends" who demand you give money to certain causes and go on expensive holidays, or like Richard Spencer, who is wealthy enough to avoid a good lawyer to get him out of trouble), or they have been through such hard times and never fully recovered, and they don’t know how to trust other people as a result, or they are incredibly socially awkward and don’t understand humanity.

You’re a hard worker, and that’s a good thing. And you will become physically stronger from it. Work smarter as well, but being a hard worker will benefit you in the long run. Save your money as well, and only spend it on necessities and the occasional takeout, day out or night out as a treat. Don’t waste it on causes just to feel good, only donate to charities you care about and charities you trust. But you’ll be alright. Unlike those spoilt brats who sit around all day living on their parents wages or working easy jobs, spending money on luxuries most people cannot afford, which is fine, except that these same people whine about wanting everything to be free and handed to them. Ironically, these same people become capitalists as soon as they start "earning" lots of money, like the former leader of BLM, who now owns four houses. They say they’re socialists, but at heart, they’re neoliberals.