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[–][deleted] 46 insightful - 5 fun46 insightful - 4 fun47 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

Heaven forbid people want to be sexually attracted to the people they date! Such awful toxicity!

Is this guy a gay version of incel? Because he sure sounds like it.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 25 insightful - 3 fun25 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Yes, he’s an incel.

[–]JulienMayfair 40 insightful - 17 fun40 insightful - 16 fun41 insightful - 17 fun -  (1 child)

I mean for me anyone showing me their genitals at that much of an early stage is a firm no.

Yeah, gay men NEVER send dick pics or general nudes to each other before meeting in person for the first time. Absolutely unheard-of. We'd NEVER rent a room in a bathhouse and lie there naked while others stroll by to inspect the goods and offer their own. We're all much too high-minded for that sort of behavior.

What do you want to bet we'd find that this queen's private messages aren't quite as noble as her tweets?

[–]Rag3 19 insightful - 11 fun19 insightful - 10 fun20 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

Puts on my Queer hat: As a bisexual woman, I’ve never had a gay man send me dick pics therefore it never happens. That’s crude and unheard of. /s

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 25 insightful - 18 fun25 insightful - 17 fun26 insightful - 18 fun -  (3 children)

He's got a point. We don't use bodies to be intimate and have sex with one another. We use pronouns, identities, and indescribable innate internal feelings. It must be so much easier for him to ask someone's pronouns before he can be attracted to them. Or better yet, to constantly re-define his own sexual orientation every time someone he's ever been attracted to changes theirs.

And let's pretend for a minute that this was just about genitals, as if that's the only obvious differentiator between the sexes. Who the hell, even bisexual people, think that male and female genitalia are interchangeable. Tell me you've never had sex without telling me you've never had sex.

[–][deleted] 11 insightful - 17 fun11 insightful - 16 fun12 insightful - 17 fun -  (2 children)

Can you imagine one of these genderspecials in the throes of passion going "oh god yes call me THEY again!!"

[–]our_team_is_winning 5 insightful - 7 fun5 insightful - 6 fun6 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

Hahaha, do you think at a nonbinary wedding they say "do you all take these people as your lawfully wedded spouse"?

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Probably. They address everyone as "folx", there's a banner at the reception with the words "queer as fuck" on it, and the cake is a sugar coma eyesore frosted with the pansexual and trans colors.

[–]DropTheT 25 insightful - 3 fun25 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 3 fun -  (9 children)

It's starting. That thing that i even thought was too paranoid to even think of, that they would conceive homosexuality itself as transphobic, is happening.

As he's trying to gaslight people calling him out in his tweets (i looked him up), he's denying it but his "supporters" are saying "same sex attraction" and "homosexuality" is a dog whistle for transphobia.

The biggest pushovers i've seen as a minority are gays and lesbians and im getting tired of it. Even more so than straight women.

+The toxic nexus of fat brigades that are too weak to take on straight and bi people, so they bring their fat armies to attack and colonize the gay community and we let them.

+The black males who refused to take on the straight black community and their homophobia and hoped they could escape the circumstances their cowardice created by fantasizing about dating affluent white surgeons turned into an army of incels attacking the gay community.

+And bisexual men and women pretending theyre victims because they cant use gays and lesbians as some fetish when they openly identity as "hetero romantic".

+And now straight men and women who identify as the opposite sex but still want heterosexual sex but know other straight people have standards so they feel entitled when they settle for the lowly gays and lesbians who should be grateful to be used by them for validation.

Gays and Lesbians have allowed a "fuck me you bigots" coalition to form and attack them from all sides.

This guy seems to think he's being virtuous. But he seems like the type to think he's part of the gay community because he's some recovering meth addict who hung out at the local gay bar and that's all it takes to be some ambassador to all gays and speaks on behalf of his people even though he's bisexual. He sort of forgets it's not about him or his feelings, or the feelings of the "trans" people. It's about the suicidal gay kids gaslighted into thinking conversion therapy can work. This idiot just traverses throughout the entire gay community thinking it's all about dating politics. He's just vile. He knows nothing except experiencing the world through dating and dicks and that informs his politics. Not helping empower the next generation of the gay community or even acknowledging gay kids exist and what he can do to make sure they dont have to face the same challenges he did. He's a narcissist.

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 14 insightful - 9 fun14 insightful - 8 fun15 insightful - 9 fun -  (5 children)

Oh good you're back again. I was starting to miss you.

[–]kwallio 10 insightful - 8 fun10 insightful - 7 fun11 insightful - 8 fun -  (4 children)

THe fat hate is novel and refreshing, he must be moving on from hating on lesbians and bisexual women.

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

The spelling and grammar improve with each iteration but the arguments are largely the same. If I didn't know any better I'd say it's an AI that goes through successive iterations of machine learning. Upvotes mean it's 'succeeded' so whatever was changed from that iteration to the previous one will carry forward.

[–]PatsyStoneMaverique 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I know someone who doesn't tell personal stories or express emotions.

Thank you Alan Turing 😉

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

He's real.

[–]reluctant_commenter 10 insightful - 8 fun10 insightful - 7 fun11 insightful - 8 fun -  (1 child)

rages about "gays and lesbians"

hates straight women

hates bisexuals

hates black men

Hey, have you ever met u/exponent2? I think you two might get along really well.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Word

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It’s nobody’s business but your own what sex, what races, what body types or what personalities you’re into. This should be common sense. But people like this control freak seem to be everywhere. It isn’t toxic to prefer one race over the other. It isn’t toxic to prefer masculine men over feminine men or vice versa. It isn’t toxic to want to date skinny guys. It it definitely isn’t toxic to want your boyfriend to have a penis, because obviously gay men are attracted to natural males. Pricks like Steven Perkins are ones being toxic for telling everyone else what to do. People like him are control freaks, and most importantly, losers.

[–]SapphicFox 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This guy comes off as a slimy little twat weasel. In another tweet he 'paraphrased' a reply Sonia Sodha gave ro Edward Lord regarding her recent article in the guardian criticising Stonewall. Her reply was measured and dignified but of course Steven paraphrased it in a way to make Sonia seem like a teenage girl throwing a tantrum. Sorry Steven not everyone can be bisexual for 'Trans rights'

[–]DropTheT 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

He seriously seems to have no connection to the gay or lesbian community other than experiencing it through the world of dating. Not civil rights, not humanizing same sex attraction and legitimizing homosexuality, not hate crimes, not confronting the homophobia within religion. Nothing. Seriously, he has no real opinions on the gay community and where it's going outside of the most trivial matters: dating.

[–]sadbihours 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think a lot of these people really need to hear the phrase “Not everyone is going to or required to like you.” I really think social media and this era of “likes” has ppl feeling as tho they HAVE to be wanted or liked by everyone or else there’s something wrong with them

[–]our_team_is_winning 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I do feel sorry for people who identify as “same-sex attracted”, it must be exhausting for them to have to carry out a full genital exam before they can decide if they are experiencing attraction or not

His premise is that men and women can't tell each other apart without looking at their naked crotch, the way you might spin a cat around to see. (People who have lived with cats can usually tell male from female with 90% accuracy without lifting their tails, by the way.)

I feel sorry for people who are knocking themselves out trying to pretend everyone is potentially sexually attracted to everyone on the planet, nobody has an orientation, and men and women can't even recognize other people's sex.

[–]fuck_reddit 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

First tweet and i can already tell this guy knows fuck all about how gay men interact with each other. Like, I know he’s joking, but most guys on Grindr and the like demand pictures before moving forward.

[–]usehername 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

people rule others out of being worthy of their attention for being too fat/too camp/too old

Too OLD? Here we go with the pro-pedo shit. Is this a trans-identified female or an exceptionally fugly man?