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[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Her comments on another post:

I was introduced to yaoi at a young age and obsessing with reading/writing it for nearly a decade helped me understand that I’m a trans gay guy too.. of course fujoshis are gross fetishizing people and the community is rotten to the core with many problems (don’t even get me started on the dehumanization of omegaverse mlm) but yaoi in itself is just a genre with some pretty good content on a side, and junk on the other. Like every other genre. It’s a big part of what my journey to be even fair and I feel a bit invalidated to read this ;-; no offense. As though I’m pretending to be gay transmasc just to project that yaoi shit or whatever. (I also 100% agree with OP on bottoming transmasc etc fetishizing. It’s everywhere and it’s gross!) Edit: I didn’t mean you make me feel invalidated, that part was aimed towards the person who said women shouldn’t read yaoi! I couldn’t access their comment. Sorry for the confusion!!

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I believe this was a huge puzzle piece that was missing from Abigail Shrier’s book because it may very well be that the parents don’t know about this component.

[–]TiredTrendersSuper-gay 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This is the main reason outside of school and IMs, i don't think children should ever be on the internet. There's too too much nonsense online everywhere you look(especially these days) and these kids, as we've all seen by now, have no idea how to handle or absorb any of it without then basing their entire identity and self image off of.

Then they grow up into delusional self centered whackjob adults who can't do anything for themselves, beyond guiltrip/gaslighting others while begging for handouts on go fund me since no one obviously wants to hire them nor can any of them hold jobs anyways.

Mark my words, all this nonsense with the TQ+ communities will end up in documentaries 20 years from now, just like the hikkikomori phenomenon in Japan currently is.

[–]Femaleisnthateful 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I believe it. Sadly so many institutions are capitalizing on the dysfunctionalities of these people. Just look at GoFundMe promoting fundraising drives by able bodied adults whining about being kicked out of their parents' homes.