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[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

They say they love "hearts not parts" and like people for their personality and not their gender.... But, what does it mean?

Other than the ones only doing it to placate the tra or signal their own specialness, I think a fair number of the younger ones are still socially immature, insecure about of their own sexuality(especially if they are SSA) and scared/squeamish of the stark biological realities of and differences between the sexes and how they fit in. Even more so now that things like sex-ed are increasingly not properly covering the science of the sexes and the real orientations. Their own sexually timid/conservative inclinations are not compatible with what their peer's expect of their political alignment or demographic group, so they may only talk to appear sex-positive and progressive, but at the same time they put up abstracted linguistic buffers between themselves and the concrete subject matter that gives them anxiety and causes them confusion.

With that said, I'm going to bang my frying pan, I'm really attracted to it, so I think I'm pansexual ;)

I recommend teflon-based lubricant.