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LifestyleDoes anyone else here worry about this?

submitted 2 years ago by helloolleh from self.LGBDropTheT

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[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago* (0 children)

Hey there, welcome. We're glad you found us. My thoughts (briefly) about your concerns:

Religion does not confer knowledge or authority and in fact tends to do the opposite when it comes to things like this. It's completely irrelevant. Love is love. Just go with that. <3

I don't even know what's real anymore.

Yes you do, hon. You are a woman who loves women. It's the people around you and the TRAs who are wandering off into the weeds and making up extra stuff that has nothing to do with you or your sexuality. They shouldn't give a rip who you love and should just want you to be happy (and I'm very sorry, and here's a <BIG HUG>, if they don't—we do). It is none of their business and they are the ones with mental health issues if they think otherwise.

It sounds like a vacation from all of these distorted beliefs would do you some good when you can make it happen. That's too much pressure to think things about yourself in ways that simply aren't true or relevant or healthy.