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[–][deleted] 31 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 0 fun32 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

Bisexuals like this are very harmful to the bi community because fucking no one likes the uppity, holier-than-thou attitude of the hearts not parts bullshit.

We get it, you like both, you're not fucking special. Go be in your bi circles if you want to talk about both. Don't go into gay male spaces and try to shame them for not liking both.

[–]chazzstrong 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Is this a thing bisexuals do, or is it a thing regressive TQ+ crazies do?
It's like lecturing gay men to stop fucking children just because a lot of child molesters are gay. Don't equate the commonalities to be the problem.

[–]usehername 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

No one ever said all bisexuals. If you don't do this, good for you. However, these people are bi, and it's important to acknowledge that. A "gay man" who likes men and "trans men" (women) is bi.

[–][deleted] 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I’ve seen some good commentary from SSA-leaning bis on this. The attraction to the same-sex is straightforward, and ever present and works the same as homosexual attraction. but the opposite-sex attraction only pops up when certain qualifications are met, only happens under specific circumstances, and is triggered by attraction to other aspects of the person’s body all as part of the whole. This literally describes the “I like dick + trans men” crowd perfectly. Dumbasses just don’t know what SSA-leaning bisexuality looks like.

[–]usehername 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I'm one of them and that's 100% correct.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Oh sorry I didn’t mean to preach to the choir. I just feel bad for SSA-leaning bi’s who know they’re bi because no one is aware of their experience so there is little community or self awareness from other bisexuals too busy identifying as gay or queer or whatever and pissing off homosexuals in the process. I really think homosexuals and SSA-leaning bisexuals as a group could get along so much better because we share so much in common like the potential is there but until ppl understand and accept the meaning of basic words I don’t see how that’s possible unfortunately.

[–]usehername 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Haha you're good I'm just backing you up.

until ppl understand and accept the meaning of basic words

I can't wait for that day.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The attraction to the same-sex is straightforward, and ever present and works the same as homosexual attraction. but the opposite-sex attraction only pops up when certain qualifications are met

Also me. (Except you know, original parts and accessories.)