you are viewing a single comment's thread.

view the rest of the comments →

[–]nettygay5 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (14 children)

I think we're being dishonest here. Yes, these people are NOT a part of us and they will never contribute to gays/lesbians in any way. It's all new for them. The second the stigma of homosexuality was reduced and put on homophobia and heterosexuals started to feel guilty about their persecution of gays/lesbians, all these bisexuals suddenly started flooding our commuities as sex tourists to "explore" that 5% of gay in them.

Then when the stigma reduced even more, all these straight men and women started "exploring" themselves. The only people with a real, SOLID sexuality are homosexuals. Not because we're better or superior, but because every single step of the way throughout history, through torture, death, murder, disgust and humiliating us into death and making homosexuality a clown show out of sheer hatred and fear to make sure NO ONE ever engages in a homosexual act and erases it from their culture, gay and lesbian children just grew up painfully grew up with the fact that theyre homosexuals even if they didnt have the word for it. They knew what they were and it took over a thousand years of sacrifice to achieve a sense of dignity as "homosexuals" even if we didnt have a word for it for the longest time. We've proven with 2000 years of murder that there is proof that a specific group of people have an innate excluisve same sex attraction no matter what you do or say or brainwash them with they are permanently gay.

Heterosexuality is a made up word gay people made up to make a more neutral term. Before heterosexual vs homosexual, it was just "normal people vs FGGTS". Thats seriously it. It was man+woman sex vs animal fucking, FGGTS, having sex with trees and rocks...we didnt "exist" in their eyes. WE gave them the word heterosexual so we could give ourselves the word homosexual. Trans people learned this from us and used "cis vs trans". Homosexuals proved we exist no matter how much you oppress us.

But what we gays like to ignore is that "heterosexuals" are a very complex and deeply complicated group of people. Heterosexuality is an "idea" for them to be oppressed and aspire to. If you dont pressure and contain them into this label, they collapse into 600,000 different identities and labels. A lot of their labels are fake and superficial and a joke but their "gender" is highly performative. Gays and lesbians can do and act however we want but they cant. It's deeply infused into their bones that you're not a real man if you do this and you're not a real woman if you dont do this. They genuinely believe this stuff.

Gays and Lesbians keep forgetting that we're still an "abomination" to them because we "break gender". Thats our biggest achievement. If we let this go, they'll convince us that we're really inverts and "women trapped inside a man's body" or "a man trapped inside a woman's body". I genuinely think we just have to hold on and survive the heterosexuals. Theyre working through their problems. All these straight trans people show us is that we have been given proof that it wasnt internalized homophobia that was making us think we were trans because these people dont suffer from internalized homophobia like we do. It shows it's a gender problem. The gay civil rights movement was to show gender and sex dont have to "match". Straight people are brainwashed to believe it does. And when you're in a liberal environment to be whomever you want to be (given to you by gay people) then you express all your hidden trauma and their trauma is their gender.

i seriously thought they hated us because of our homosexuality but it seems we truly disgust heterosexuals/bisexuals because of our "gender"?

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (13 children)

So hey, welcome to this sub. We try to stay away from broad, derogatory generalizations here about members of our own group (LGB). I encourage you to consider the parts of your response which appear to be veering into that territory; it is both inaccurate and alienating to others here. It's possible to talk about one's experiences without negating or devaluing others. No one here needs or deserves to have it stated or implied that their sexual orientation is not real, for example.

Thanks for considering. Cheers.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 21 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

I think it's exponent2 or grammaroo with another new account. He used to blame lesbians for everything that's wrong with LGB, but now he's moved on to including bisexuals. He rarely criticises gay men and he very often uses capitals to emphasise his points. Just look up grammaroo's post history and you'll see what I mean.

Edit: he's also very long winded and drags things down the pyramid of debate. Debate with him, if you dare.

[–]reluctant_commenter 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

He has actually been hating on bisexuals for a while too, he started doing that like 5 accounts or so, haha. And straight women. All those evil bisexuals, lesbians, and straight women... and all straights... pretty much only gay men he won't go after.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I saw him complaining about black gay men, so I guess they're not safe either.

[–][deleted] 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I keep telling people to ignore this dumbass bc nothing he says makes any sense and goes on long rants about the evils of lesbians and bisexuals. Man’s a troll

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This appears, upon inspection of the comment history, to be sound advice.

[–]reluctant_commenter 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Wouldn't be surprised if he upvotes his own comments with some of those dozen or so other accounts he's made, haha.

[–]nettygay5 1 insightful - 4 fun1 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 4 fun -  (3 children)

heterosexuality is a category made by a gay social scientist. im not saying it's not "real". If "straight" men and women werent attracted to each other, civilization would collapse and we'd all go extinct. I'm just saying theyre using categories we gave them because when theyre considered normal, theyre just invisible, common and all encompassing. Just like how we roll our eyes at the word "cis". And we dont have a category for people with 2 eyes. I just meant theyre a bit more complicated and their identity is a bit more sophisticated than just "heterosexual". Just look at the explosion of bisexuals.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 9 insightful - 8 fun9 insightful - 7 fun10 insightful - 8 fun -  (2 children)

Just look at the explosion of bisexuals.

Oh no! We already have scary levels of poverty and poor mental/physical health-- now we're EXPLODING, too???

Maybe, like so many things in movies that are prone to inexplicable detonation, we are (as per the trope) Made of Explodium?

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MadeofExplodium

Guess the good lord took a likin' to us bisexuals (and made us up blow up real good).

[–]PatsyStoneMaverique 4 insightful - 5 fun4 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)