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[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 40 insightful - 29 fun40 insightful - 28 fun41 insightful - 29 fun -  (2 children)

I have said it before and I shall say it again:

aposematism

/ˌæpə(ʊ)sɪˈmætɪz(ə)m/

noun

the use of a signal and especially a visual signal of conspicuous markings or bright colours by an animal to warn predators that it is toxic or distasteful.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

<tucks this word away for future use>

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Brilliant.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 29 insightful - 5 fun29 insightful - 4 fun30 insightful - 5 fun -  (13 children)

That def looks more like a trans woman to me. Are they LARPing as each other now? There was an example a little while ago in here where a MTF was commenting in r/AL and revealing their trans status in a way that was meant to make the users think they were FtM. Among other purposely deceitful behavior revealed by their post history.

ETA: Note the male hairline and classic choker to hide the Adam’s apple. Even the style of earrings is more MtF than FtM who generally try to disguise their classically pierced ears with those ear plugs.

[–]PatsyStoneMaverique 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

That's a level of complexity I hadn't even considered. An autogynephile who wants some serious abuse as a girl who thinks she's a gay man? They did have a fondness for being girls with PTSD a few years ago, this could be the evolution of that.

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 14 insightful - 8 fun14 insightful - 7 fun15 insightful - 8 fun -  (2 children)

We have to go deeper.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 11 insightful - 17 fun11 insightful - 16 fun12 insightful - 17 fun -  (0 children)

Let's not.

[–]PatsyStoneMaverique 6 insightful - 7 fun6 insightful - 6 fun7 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Lol let's don't and say we did.

[–]Tikiri 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I thought that too. Especially because “she” (taking her at her word) is careful to insist that she’s not MtF ... which seemed really weird!

[–]Criticallacitirc 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

They're female.

Here's a photo where you can see the chest scars https://twitter.com/fauxmanifaggot/status/1363657893279588357?s=20

Think she just had a very masculine head , pretrans pic https://twitter.com/fauxmanifaggot/status/1373286540676362247?s=20

Think they're just been on T for awhile & have a more masculine hairline now & bad skin.

Also does T do something to your nose ? Notice lots of FTMs seem to develop very prominent noses...

[–]exponent2 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

AAAAAAAAAND OF COURSE she calls herself the F-slur as her twitter handle.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I stand corrected. Thanks for your detective work. I think the way she hides her nose in the OP makes her more convincing but it’s still quite a transition to effortlessly appear full MTF when she’s really FTM. That’s a new one. Congrats to her for passing as a bio male in that regard. What prize does she win?

[–]verystablegenius 4 insightful - 6 fun4 insightful - 5 fun5 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

[–]TheBeefBenson 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I honestly just feel really sorry for her.

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Too complicated for me.

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    [–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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    [–]PatsyStoneMaverique 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

    That ad would get her all the straight men she could handle. This is so bizarre. She actually does look like a dude, or Patti Smith. Why do this? Why bother? That whole ad reads "I hate myself and don't see myself as human."

    Edit: It's because she thinks gay men are less violent, right? 🤮 How broken do you have to be to only evaluate other people in terms of how you think they can serve your needs?

    [–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 22 insightful - 3 fun22 insightful - 2 fun23 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

    She is one of the few that does look like a dude. But I don't get how she is confused gay men on grindr might think she has a penis. She should make it the first sentence on her bio. " I DO NOT HAVE A PENIS" problem solved

    [–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 17 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

    Gay men can get pretty violent. In fact, gay men tend to be angrier than other men, because of centuries of oppression and what we are going through right now. Plus, a lot of woke gay men are willing to commit violence, and those are the only type of gay men who would simp for FTMs.

    [–]QueenBread 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    She actually does look like a dude

    I dunno. There's filters on apps for LITERAL TWEENS (because let's get them young) that very realistically change your gender in a photo, quickly. I could send you a photo taken using that app, and you would never, EVER be able to tell I'm a woman.

    [–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

    She actually does look like a dude

    That's due to her jawline, brows, and complete lack of neoteny in the face.

    Her body would probably more readily reveal her sex though.

    [–]odiusgay man 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I knew an ftm in college. If you saw a picture of her from the neck up, you'd think "oh, that's a guy." She had a fairly masculine face and more facial hair than I could grow at the time or even now. If you actually met her though, it's hard to miss the fact that she was maybe between 5'2-5'4 and had hips that were wider than her shoulders. I clocked her as ftm long before I was told.

    [–]usehername 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    neoteny

    Haven't heard this word but I've heard of some things relating to the concept. Interesting as fuck. Thanks for giving me something to read about

    [–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Np; I learned about it from PenseePansy.

    [–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 22 insightful - 8 fun22 insightful - 7 fun23 insightful - 8 fun -  (1 child)

    We are also put off by your behaviour and your m e n t a l h e a l t h issues.

    [–]PatsyStoneMaverique 6 insightful - 5 fun6 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

    No, you're the crazy ones! You love vagine, you just can't admit it!

    [–]Elvira95Viva la figa 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

    Wow, I swear I though that was a man, mainly face ahaah

    [–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

    I think it is. Otherwise why is it so insistent that they're not MTF. Coupled with non-existent breasts, a male face and jawline, the way they pose and someone else pointed out the choker can be used to hide an Adam's apple.

    Edit: Turns out this is actually a woman, but could've fooled me.

    [–]Elvira95Viva la figa 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    So, now they're playing as the opposite trans sex. That's weird

    [–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I'm also getting dude vibes, here.

    [–]FediNetizenSuper-semi-bisexual (i.e. straight) 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Don't forget the indications of male pattern baldness

    [–]grixit 7 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

    It says she's a submissive masochist, so shouldn't she be gratified by people expressing disgust at her?

    [–]PatsyStoneMaverique 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    Who says she isn't? She's kind of humble bragging here.

    [–]insta 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    NOT A FETISH!

    [–]QueenBread 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

    A clear example of autoandrophilia, by the way.

    [–]PatsyStoneMaverique 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

    That's not a term I've encountered before, what does it mean?

    [–]supersmokio6420 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    Erotic attraction to the idea of oneself as a man

    [–]PatsyStoneMaverique 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Yikes. Sad that that's become a thing.

    [–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    It's the opposite of autogynephilia, or AGP.

    [–]PatsyStoneMaverique 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Ah, I should have been able to piece that one together. Thanks.

    [–]Q-Continuum-kin 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    I always find it funny when people deep in the gender bubble freak out and are confused when the general public understands the words transman and transwomen to mean the exact opposite of the intended meaning.

    When people hear "transboy" or whateverthefuck most people hear that to mean a boy who is trans so a MtF.