That’s the thing. If they’d forego the extreme body modification and fetish gear in public, they’d have a much better chance at getting laid. It’s not as though they’re born looking “trans.” It’s a choice. This is like that man who tattooed his body and split his tongue in order to appear more like a lizard. If people aren’t into that sort of thing, and it bothers them, they really have nobody to blame besides themselves.go figure that most people won’t want to date someone who goes out of their way to appear bizarre and mentally ill.