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[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If the straight men arent dangerous, scary and violently masculine, then they cant respect them or be attracted to them as sexual partners.

This is a really important aspect to (toxic) heterosexual relationships. We forget that some women contribute to the toxicity of their relationships by selecting for the most violent and scary men. I wouldn't say this never happens in gay male relationships, but it is comparatively far less common. (On the other hand, uber-promiscuous partner who can't keep in his pants? Totally gay.)