I've noticed this theme on Ovarit that AGP straight men fetishize lesbians and dont understand same sex relationships between 2 women and how theyre different from heterosexual relationships but that somehow when straight women (AAP) who identify as women do it, they do so to escape the oppressive dynamics of heterosexual relationships and i dont think thats true judging by the yaoi they consume.
whats the point of obsessing over gay relationships like that if theyre just going to translate the traditional heterosexual dynamics on to them? In so many animes written by these people, it's so typically filled with toxic femininity AND toxic masculinity that no gay person would allow. NOT because gay males are superior but because of the "what the fuck? no..YOU do that for me then" attitude of a reciprocal relationship.
I've read some of these mangas and found them to be strange until someone explained to me that it was created by women.
I've only read 5 of these comics and theyre all by different authors but have the same consistent patter which wouldnt be tolerated within the gay world and has a lot of homophobia in their dynamics.
Example 1. super powerful impossibly young multi billionaire, hyper alpha male and highly protective......finds a 13/14 year old misused, abused and degraded sex slave auctioned off to a bunch of other wealthy billionaires and THIS sexy alpha male buys him, abuses him but the innocent 14 year old boy submits to the torment and surrenders himself fully to the humiliation to please his master until the ultra sexy powerful billionaire 35 year old is guilted into loving him to redeem himself. <---HMMMMMMM geee, i wonder WHO could have written something like this.
Example 2. Ultra dangerous hyper alpha male murderer who has a gigantic dick and just cant stop making people squeal like helpless animals as he crushes their skulls in an erotic sense of destruction as the citizens of the world are his victims and the only chance of survival anyone has is through his pity of your inferiority mere garbage humans...if you only knew beneath his pants lurks a gigantic sweaty mega dick and you're only alive through his mercy. He's a danger to everyone BUT this 13 year old boy can suffer through the pain and power of the ultra alpha male and live under the crushing power of his masculinity to "save him" through....redeeming him by the guilt he induced through all the abuse he inflicted <------HMMMMMM, i wonder whose sexual fantasies these are.
It's almost like there's a pattern that doesnt quite work out well if there isnt a strange element of pedophilia involved that they want but can only project it on to their imagined dynamic of gay love. It's like there's only one pattern that keeps emerging...some alpha male pushing some gay boy's face into the ground with his feet in a metaphorical sense and then suffering through the crushing masculinity to be shown mercy by the sexy, dangerous hyper masculinity they imagine. it says a lot about them that they cant imagine any other dynamic and these people are homophobic to their core and shows how oppressive they are to straight men. If the straight men arent dangerous, scary and violently masculine, then they cant respect them or be attracted to them as sexual partners. They gay community tried VERY HARD to get rid of these garbage dynamics and if you even tried to introduce them again, you'd be laughed out of the room but it just goes to show you, they couldnt even experience or imagine a homosexual relationship even if they tried and they reveal the core of their heterosexism. So even when they "identify" as gay men, they identify with and relate to NOTHING about gay men. They really are cosplaying as them. There's nothing "gay" about them except the social identities they think they can consume like a product.
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