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[–]PeakingPeachEaterfemale♀ | detrans🦎 | eater of peaches 🍑 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

  1. They're creepy Yaoi fangirls/fujoshi that want to be a beautiful/pretty boy "uke" to their "seme".

  2. It drives me up the wall too as a bisexual woman, she's an asshole/idiot.

  3. Probably a creepy "f*g-hag"---I think that's how they say it in English?...They're OBSESSED with gay men.

** Unfortunately, I know what "uke" and "seme" mean because I was best friends with a creepy yaoi fangirl since grade school up until junior high and she wouldn't shut the fuck up about it. She wanted to be an "uke" and have a "seme". She went from calling herself "pansexual" to "lesbian". She's dated boys in the past and had a huge crush on me, it was not subtle. Was clingy, jealous, and lazy. Made me tired, ran away from that mess.

[–]grixit 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I was once told that "uke" meant literally "receive". In karate studios, punching dummies are called that. Doesn't seem like something for a person to aspire to.

[–]PeakingPeachEaterfemale♀ | detrans🦎 | eater of peaches 🍑 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That depresses me as someone who likes martial arts. These weirdo yaoi fans are ruining perfectly normal terms. :-/

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

seme

Never heard that word used before. I thought the Japanese equivalent of 'top' was tachi, but maybe that's just used by actual gay men rather than women who are pretending?

[–]PeakingPeachEaterfemale♀ | detrans🦎 | eater of peaches 🍑 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, seme and uke is used specifically in Yaoi...gay erotic anime porn. I don't believe gay Japanese men actually use the terminology seme and uke...just fans of Yaoi do.

[–]grammaroo 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

whats the point of obsessing over gay relationships like that if theyre just going to translate the traditional heterosexual dynamics on to them? In so many animes written by these people, it's so typically filled with box toxic masculinity AND toxic masculinity that no gay person would allow. NOT because gay males are superior but because of the "what the fuck? no..YOU do that for me then" attitude of a reciprocal relationship. I've read some of these mangas and found them to be strange until someone explained to me that it was created by women. It seems the whole "women identify as trans gay men to run away from the world of the evil heterosexual male" seems to be a false narrative. I've only read 5 of these comics and theyre all by different authors but have the same consistent patter which wouldnt be tolerated within the gay world and has a lot of homophobia in their dynamics: Example 1. super powerful impossibly young multi billionaire, hyper alpha male and highly protective......finds a 13/14 year old misused, abused and degraded sex slave auctioned off to a bunch of other wealthy billionaires and THIS sexy alpha male buys him, abuses him but the innocent 14 year old boy submits to the torment and surrenders himself fully to the humiliation to please his master until the ultra sexy powerful billionaire 35 year old is guilted into loving him to redeem himself. <---HMMMMMMM geee, i wonder WHO could have written something like this. Example 2. Ultra dangerous hyper alpha male murderer who has a gigantic dick and just cant stop making people squeal like helpless animals as he crushes their skulls in an erotic sense of destruction as the citizens of the world are his victims and the only chance of survival anyone has is through his disgust of your inferiority and pitying you mere garbage humans...if you only knew beneath his pants lurks a gigantic sweaty mega dick and you're only alive through his mercy. He's a danger to everyone BUT this 13 year old boy can suffer through the pain and power of the ultra alpha male and live under the crushing power of his masculinity to "save him" through....redeeming him by the guilt he induced through all the abuse he inflicted <------HMMMMMM, i wonder whose sexual fantasies these are. It's almost like there's a pattern.