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[–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

  1. I never had a "dream wedding" and neither did my wife.

  2. We did a courthouse wedding 2 months ago, because why not? We were planning to spend our lives together anyway and we decided to make it official. We've been together 4 years and covid, lockdowns, global chaos made us realize a lot of stuff we should have realized sooner. Imo I wouldn't have had it any other way.

  3. I had never been to a same-sex wedding before my own, and neither had my wife.

  4. Weddings in my country are pretty varied. Some people go religious some go secular/court. We're atheists so we went to the courthouse. Some go for a big party others go for a simple dinner. It really depends on the couple.

  5. For our anniversaries we normally walk up to the cafe where we met and sometimes get dinner out. The last one we just stayed in and ordered pizza due to lockdown in our state. We didn't mind, we're both pretty chill.

Ps. Congrats on your (new?) child!

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 9 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 4 fun10 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

You met in a cafe, like normal cafe, like an hetero couple?

[–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We did! The café was on our campus so that maybe made it easier for us to meet. We're both kind of butchy too so no guessing if the other was gay. I'm shy irl but she was cute af, and after a few months I finally asked her out! Best decision of my life.