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[–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

  1. I never had a "dream wedding" and neither did my wife.

  2. We did a courthouse wedding 2 months ago, because why not? We were planning to spend our lives together anyway and we decided to make it official. We've been together 4 years and covid, lockdowns, global chaos made us realize a lot of stuff we should have realized sooner. Imo I wouldn't have had it any other way.

  3. I had never been to a same-sex wedding before my own, and neither had my wife.

  4. Weddings in my country are pretty varied. Some people go religious some go secular/court. We're atheists so we went to the courthouse. Some go for a big party others go for a simple dinner. It really depends on the couple.

  5. For our anniversaries we normally walk up to the cafe where we met and sometimes get dinner out. The last one we just stayed in and ordered pizza due to lockdown in our state. We didn't mind, we're both pretty chill.

Ps. Congrats on your (new?) child!

[–]PeakingPeachEaterfemale♀ | detrans🦎 | eater of peaches 🍑[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I feel you on courthouse wedding, I am not religious either/have no belief. My mother's country is extremely Catholic---she is not happy I have a child before marriage haha. And thanks! Little one will be turning 2 sometime in the fall.

Ooo, you anniversaries sound really romantic and nice! I am jelly. Our anniversary happens to fall on a major holiday haha. But we celebrate it with spending the day together and giving gifts.

[–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Spending the day together and giving gifts is beautiful! Also kudos on raising a young child during covid. That must be hard work.