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[–]censorshipment 7 insightful - 7 fun7 insightful - 6 fun8 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

My straight friends used to treat me like I'm just one of the girls, which I hated because they're all feminine and I'm gnc/butch... I didn't want to have boring "girls chats" and "girls nights" with them. I just wanted to be their lesbian party friend (go out, get drunk, attract bi/gay women who liked that I had a bunch of female friends lol).

When I had a job, men respected me like I was just one of the guys (except the one dude who followed me into a restroom, I got him fired)... but women groped me and asked inappropriate questions about my sex life. They seemed very "bicurious" when I was around. I refused to report women for harassing me... so I quit my job. Pussy Pass NOT Denied. 🤭

In general, I think people treat me well because I'm masculine... they don't expect me to do feminine shit that other women do. 😏

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, that's why I'm more fond of feminine gays than masculine lesbians. Other than the fact that basically I don't like masculinity, a gay dude will much more disrespected for being feminine than a lesbian will be mistreated for being masculine, since this misogynistic society treats femininity as a shame.