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[–]simpliyoot 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Since when did gay effeminate men become attractive to even fetishize? I dont get this dynamic. And do they just not trust straight men to TRULY be effeminate to fuck them with a dildo? But i guess there's a big difference between a big hulking hairy monkey built like a tank wearing a wig and pretending to be feminine, and a genuinely feminine gay guy who's so authentically "gay" that he tries to overcome his femininity but cant.

It would be nice if they cancelled each other out (AGP's and AAP's) and partnered with each other.

[–]censorshipment 7 insightful - 8 fun7 insightful - 7 fun8 insightful - 8 fun -  (2 children)

Since when did gay effeminate men become attractive to even fetishize?

Hmm straight women (who aren't overtly homophobic) have been fetishizing gay effeminate men for decades. I noticed it throughout the 80s and 90s... women talking about how big gay men's dicks were. This is why I'm so comfortable looking at gay men. Lol I was brought up in a very gay-friendly environment.

https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackLGBT/comments/mqcjol/taco_tuesday/

Even my lesbian ass finds this "bottom" attractive. 🤫

Basit, on MTV's Are You The One? (season 8, the "queer" season), was adored by women. In the video below, Basit and Kylie had a thing during the show but weren't perfect matches.

https://youtu.be/OiWwKzOoH40

[–]simpliyoot 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

as a gay guy i just find this incredibly strange. Not in a "theyre disgusting for even liking this" but.. dont women basically worship strong, dominant straight masculine men and their entire sexuality is built around wanting a big strong man to take refuge in his arms or something? These people dont seem to want to provide that lol They'd probably insist that YOU hold them lol is it just their aesthetic or i guess women feel a different power dynamic with them? Or they seriously expect gay effeminate men to act like dominant straight men?

[–]censorshipment 10 insightful - 8 fun10 insightful - 7 fun11 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

No... Fabio Lanzoni isn't the ideal man anymore.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fabio_Lanzoni

Women in my age group (30s/40s) grew up liking boy bands who mostly looked gay as fuck. Many girls loved Lance Bass of N'Sync who turned out to be gay. And Ricky Martin. And Clay Aiken. They had millions of female groupies getting wet over them. And let's be real... Michael Jackson and Prince may not have been gay, but they were effeminate and not physically strong at all. Yet they had millions of female groupies who wanted the dick.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lance_Bass

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ricky_Martin

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clay_Aiken