DiscussionIn love with straight friend vs . . .

submitted by JulienMayfair from (self.LGBDropTheT)

Gay guys on Reddit are typically pretty direct about "crush on straight friend" posts with responses like "Get over it!" and "Snap out of it." "He's straight -- he will NEVER be into you!"

So why can't we be that direct when it comes to trans people demanding romantic/sexual interest from "cis" people? Why can't women say to transwomen, "She's not into you. GET OVER IT!"

Why shouldn't straight guys just "get over their genital preference" and learn to love gay sex?

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[–]deliciousdogfoodmy name isnt a puppyplay reference i swear 40 insightful - 5 fun40 insightful - 4 fun41 insightful - 5 fun -  (3 children)

Ahh, crushing on the straight friend. An awkward highschool classic. I made a total fool of myself back then.

The trans cult haven't really mentally and emotionally aged up to highschool yet, let alone past it.

[–][deleted] 17 insightful - 12 fun17 insightful - 11 fun18 insightful - 12 fun -  (2 children)

High school is being generous. maybeee kindergarten lol.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 14 insightful - 8 fun14 insightful - 7 fun15 insightful - 8 fun -  (1 child)

Kindergarten, with a sex drive.

[–]censorshipment 23 insightful - 17 fun23 insightful - 16 fun24 insightful - 17 fun -  (0 children)

Because trans people are too fragile to be rejected. Rejection is discrimination. 😹

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Because they're in a position in society where they don't have to and aren't expected to accommodate others. Simple as that.

[–]loveSloaneSuperDuperBi 26 insightful - 6 fun26 insightful - 5 fun27 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

“So why can't we be that direct when it comes to trans people demanding romantic/sexual interest from "cis" people?“

Because when we say things like that to trans people it’s literally violence and denying their existence. /s

[–][deleted] 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Because they have incel mentality that is encouraged by the community they're a part of.

[–]JoeyJoeJoe 22 insightful - 7 fun22 insightful - 6 fun23 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

If we could reason with TRA's, there wouldn't be any.

[–]reluctant_commenter 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lol, that's actually so accurate. The whole movement is based off of pseudoscience and illogical conflicting beliefs.

[–]Happy_Blueberry3910 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So why can't we be that direct when it comes to trans people demanding romantic/sexual interest from "cis" people?

Because they want to force people into this delusion that males = females and females = males. It's all about power.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's because the poster is usually someone who has little experience in romance and sex while the ones trying to pull the poster back to reality are more experienced and want what's best for the poster: getting over it because there is legitimately no chance. If you can't already see the discrepancy here, the trans people posting about how they have a crush on someone not attracted to their sex don't have other trans people that either have romantic and sexual maturity/experience or want what's best for the poster. And the group has already become so large and hive minded that someone who would try to help would be ejected immediately, so there's no room to change this fact.

It's sort of like the difference between a teen asking their parents for relationship advice vs asking the most stereotypical neckbeard incel for relationship advice. One of these will be much more reliable than the other.

[–]SnowAssMan 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's all about affirming their self-ID. You can never imply that a man who identifies as a lesbian is anything other than a lesbian.

[–]lazy-summer-godSuper Gay 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's because LGBTQABCD community doesn't really care about trans people. They just use them as fuel for their political gains. A nice justification for pushing more and more onto people.

What trans people truly need is to grow up. Emotionally and mentally. And to have that, they need to be left alone to learn how to deal with their own issues that they'll face as trans people. But leaving them to grow would mean that LGBTQWERTY community is not needed anymore – and that would mean less money, less media attention, less space for lobbying and overall less political power for those in charge of it. Why do you think they're shoving ridiculous pronounce issues into everyone's throats? Because they believe in that? They're not stupid or delusional. They just understand that real problems have been solved already. So they have to make some problem up. And because woke people are dumb as fuck, they bought it and keep spreading it.

What you've mentioned, that "crush on a straight friend" thing, is exactly how each gay man grows. Most of us had a straight friend crush and we had to find a way to free ourselves from it. With that, we learn to overcome the thrist for all men and to focus only on those available to us. Only then we can actually start having a dating or sex life. You grow and learn only through struggle.

It's actually sad to see trans people being denied that.