you are viewing a single comment's thread.

view the rest of the comments →

[–]loveSloaneSuperDuperBi 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I’m starting to feel like there’s this really intricate combination of self hatred, entitlement, and narcissism in most QT’s that they take out on other people. And that they hate others (and blame us for all of their problems) simply because we are what they can’t be, no matter how we treat them or view them.

[–]loveSloaneSuperDuperBi 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The thing is, even if we did see them as a real woman/man, they’d still not have a real vagina or a real penis, and likely still have many secondary sex characteristics that we aren’t attracted to, and that’s pretty important when it comes to having sex with or dating someone. You can accept someone’s sense of identity and still not be attracted to them, just as someone can not be attracted to someone who isn’t trans. I don’t see them as “real” women/men, obviously. I’m just saying that accepting TW as women or TM as men doesn’t lead to an obligation to want to fuck them. That’s just not how attraction works.