My cousin (married woman, kids) has just come out as as a transman. Basically no change, except a shorter hair cut and demands about her pronouns.

I guess claiming you've nuked your marriage because of your trauma from secretly being trans for 35 years is more acceptable to her equity and inclusion based adult ed mates than admitting she's a closet lesbian who moved her gf into the family home.

Resulting in her husband getting a gf too. Cue total marriage implosion. Confused and upset little kids, oldest is about eight.

I've been blocked for being horribly transphobic.

I give this phase two years tops.