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[–]begonia_skies 29 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Ack, some of the comments go on about how lesbians are so pure and so perfect, I really hate that crap, no actual lesbian with any life experience talks that way. Lesbian relationships are just as complex and difficult at times as all other relationships. We don't sit around all day painting our nails with rainbows in totally cute sleep attire blowing hearts out of our ass. We argue, get jealous, cheat, get depressed, have bad days, etc. I really don't know why they seem to believe that lesbians have these perfect lives, I've been a lesbian my whole life and it's not easy, at all.

[–]DestructionI ❤️ adult human females 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's escapism for the terminally single and it permiates all sexualities. It's why people can so easily fall head over heels for someone they've just met and become disillusioned later on when their partner turns out to just be a flawed human being and not the perfect angel descended from a golden piedestal.

Trust me. I've been on both sides.