Gay MenPeak derangement from male impersonators on AGB

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[–]szalinskikidproblematic androphile 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The amount of likes is absolutely disheartening.

And by reading and interacting with this individual, it turns out that he is bi and not even into trans people himself, but has the audacity to lecture gays about their own sexuality and redefine it for them. It's insane. And frightening because same-sex attracted people are in the minority compared to the all-encompassing "queer community".

Bi friends, please don't take that as an offense. I don't mean YOU, the sane ones, but people like the OP on reddit. Could it be that Bis like him cannot fathom the idea of monosexuality? Is that (a huge part of) the basis for the problems and hate for exclusively same sex attracted people? They equate "gayness" and tolerance with sexual indifference, because they are too dense to look past their own sexual experience?

And are the straight "allies" so unconsciously homophobic that they internalized the idea of the "sexually unhinged homosexual"? Therefore, "a gay" with a discriminatory dating pool isn't "a good gay"...? They are more inclined to believe people like the OP who says that gays should basically lust after everyone who breathes. And am I crazy to think that they rub their hands with glee at the thought of being "allowed" to vilify and attack any homosexual who dares to not conform to their logic?

Frustrating.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

From my personal experience, bi people do tend to buy into TRA ideology more than monossexuals and that's because of their sexual orientation and the fact that they actually like both. And as a consequence, I've seen several bi people "lecturing" gay people how to be a "good gay". However, I've also seen that sometimes bi people are the most victims of this ideology. How? For example, like in stories like this:

In all of this stories, it's about a bisexual woman dating male partner who doesn't "identify" as a man. They all end up having similar points. All the bi women start by saying stuff like this:

She came out as trans the next year, and I was fine with it because hey, gender has never mattered to me

My (21f) partner (MTF 24f) just came out to me about a week ago. Initially, I felt incredibly supportive. I identify as bisexual and I have been in relationships with women previously.

My (Amab) partner came out as non binary recently and I am ok with that. I am cis female. I have had both male and female partners in the past

But then, the conflict and the biology facts don't care about genderwoowoo feelings began:

The scent from her vagina did not feel normal, and when I went down on her it was something I couldn't bring myself to tolerate.

She insisted that it was exactly like the odor of any woman, but I have not in my life encountered a woman who smells like her.

I love the idea of living my life with a woman. It’s always been something that I’ve been completely okay with. But she says that she wants to take hormones but not have surgery and that’s where the disconnect happens.

But then as soon as things get sexual, my brain automatically switches back to the way things used to be and I hate that

I don’t want to be like this and have gender roles and stereotypes stuck in my head but they’ve been engraved into my brain. (...) I have no idea how to treat a penis femininely, does that make any sense at all?

What I am concerned about is that I feel like I can no longer address what I would have considered gendered issues in our relationship not so long ago. I know, that women and non binary people are also capable of behaving in this way, but in my experience, there are certain things that only come up when I am with a man.

I don't know how to say 'you might be non binary but you were socialised as a guy and still act like one in ways that impact me' without sounding like a raging terf.

I feel for these bi women. They're literally and genuinely so so so confused lmao. I feel like it can be particularly tricky and dangerous the TRA ideology for bisexual people, in particular for bi women who are usually victims of abusive narcissistic MTFs. Because for us, monossexuals, it's damn clear. I, as a lesbian, want no penis. I don't give a f if you call it a vagina, a big clitories or a girl dick. You're f*cking dude.

Having said this, I end up not feeling pitty about this bi women because they're contributing to gay people's oppression when they buy into this ideology. So I truly have mixed feelings on this.

I appreciate all the bi people on here though, which bring sanity and good representation to the B !