(Sorry, I'm angry-ranting in this one, I've been marathoning this latest season of Real Housewives of NY and they're all screaming at each other and I'm losing it! I <3 you, this aggression is not towards you at all!)

Honestly, this is (my paranoid gut fear) what's going to happen. 10 years ago there were a handful of asexuals on the internet who were (claiming to be) 0% attracted to anyone sexually. They were just this tiny group of people, they didn't want to have sex, they had zero interest in romantic partners, they just wanted to belong under the LGBT umbrella for whatever fucking stupid reason. I'm just annoyed at how things have played out, and I'm annoyed at them for INSISTING SO HARD to get a seat at the table when we made it clear we did not want or need them and they didn't need us. And then suddenly through some kind of asexual reproduction they began multiplying and mutating! Grey asexuals, demi sexuals, aro ace, whatever the fuck, there are so many of them, so many different flavors, I don't have statistics but I feel like right now under the asexual umbrella, maybe 5% of them are truly asexual, and even then I believe this is a medical (hormonal? medication? tumor?) issue or a psychiatric issue, not a true sexuality to have no libido.

And again with the T. They were just HSTS, they were a small bunch, and we were co-existing. And then the trenders and perverts and fetishists flooded in and drowned the HSTS out, again I don't know the percentages, but only a tiny % of HSTS are visible. Not only that, they are steamrolling over the dragqueens too.

So of course us LGB are next. The straight girls have been cannibalizing bisexuality since the 90's or even before. They switched over to pansexual for a hot minute, but now they're back pretending to be bi. The political lesbians (straight/bi women) have been at it for a long time too. But it's the transgenders that are destroying the L and the G label.

At least with L and G it's still easy to see with our eyes who's who, so you two will survive a bit longer, but we bi's are fucked. I'm glad I'm too old to be involved with this youngest crop of 'bi girls' who only want to perform at being bi publicly and will probably cry if they see someone else's vagina IRL. That kind of rejection would be heartbreaking to an L/B teenager who is just trying to find love, to be treated like she is disgusting and needy instead.

When it swings back around, the next generation might absolutely reject all the "queer" things, including us LGB and we end up like it's the 80's all over again with people calling us queer in the hate-crime way all because of these trendy assholes who will quietly slink back into being straight the moment danger is headed their way.

They have no idea how much damage they are causing and even if they did know, they wouldn't care. They are much too invested in lying to themselves, that's why they need validation so much.

Anyway, sorry for the rant. I wish I could climb a mountain and just AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA ontop of it.