all 18 comments

[–]our_team_is_winning 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

<When's the last time you asked a guy what his chromosomes are before hooking up? Why do you care so much???>

If you order a cheeseburger, fries, and a diet Pepsi, and after you pay you pull over to eat and find they gave you chicken nuggets, no fries, and a Sprite, so what? It's still food.

Seriously, are these "I'm a cis gay guy" ever from actual gay men? As soon as I see the non-word "cis," I stop reading.

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

When's the last time you asked a guy what his chromosomes are before hooking up?

So tired of these disingenuous arguments. It's basically "I'm going to pretend that trans identified women are literally 100% identical to actual men with hard cum dripping cocks and you are a monster for caring about their chromosomes which is literally the only thing different about them." and then you're obligated to sit there and explain to a grown ass human being all the differences between a boy and a girl like they're a space alien who don't already know this.

Every fucking time, we have to first belly dance through a gauntlet of false and ridiculous statements before we can even get to the actual point.

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

grown ass human being

Are they though? While we'll never be able to see statistics I would love to see a breakdown-by-age of all these incredibly vocal Reddit and Tumblr TRAs. Another post somewhere mentioned that we shouldn't let 14 year olds with no conception of sex dominate any discussion, least of all one that centres around the concept of sexed bodies.

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I feel like these kids watch enough porn to know the difference between a male and female body, to be honest, but I see your point. It's the internet, we have no idea if we're arguing with geriatric clowns or with toddlers.

[–]deliciousdogfoodmy name isnt a puppyplay reference i swear 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

if they're learning about men vs women via porn then its no wonder they view human bodies as pieces of meat that can be carved and molded into any shape or size imaginable.

And that's to say nothing about their inability to comprehend consent, sexual boundaries and healthy adult relationships.

[–]reluctant_commenter 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Hey, if you actually do want to see an age breakdown, for Reddit at least-- r/actualtransbians had a survey that I did a data analysis post about, a lot of them are indeed very young. I can go dig that up

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This one? I think I remember seeing it when you posted it the first time, I'll have a trawl through! Thanks!

[–]reluctant_commenter 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yup! No problem. If you have any other questions about that dataset, by the way, I could probably go dig into it some more.

[–]julesburm1891 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Literally every other post on AGB: Trans men are men! If you, as a gay man, aren’t attracted to them, you’re a toxic transphobe! Get over your genital fetish, misogynist.

This asswipe: nO oNe Is SaYiNg YoU hAvE tO bE aTtRaCtEd To TrAnSmEn

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The flat out lies here. In the same breath as he says no one is calling us transphobic for wanting to date real men, he says that we shouldn't care about someone's sex even before having sex with them. And to say that homophobes wouldn't be less homophobic if we rejected the T, this person is showing their western privilege of not knowing a damn thing about world affairs and politics, the T is being used as the sole excuse to keep hating us all over the world.

The T is doing active harm worldwide through their actions in the US and Europe. In an ironic twist, the people who accuse us of murdering people by doing nothing are the one's leading to deaths the world over through their actions.

It's all deflection and projection.

[–]julesburm1891 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I’m quietly counting all the straight people I know in real life who are fine with LGB but have issues with TQ. It’s a hell of a lot.

[–][deleted] 13 insightful - 4 fun13 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

To put in crudely, gay men decades before us fought and went to jail to secure the right to give another man a blowjob, so you can go to hell if you're going to tell them they have to do otherwise.

[–]NutterButterFlutterStill waving into the void 8 insightful - 6 fun8 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

When's the last time someone called you transphobic for that?

*checks watch*

About 15 seconds ago, since y'all never fucking shut up about it

[–]Femaleisnthateful 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

'PM_me_your_sexy_mom' - yeah, username checks out /s

[–]TiredTrendersSuper-gay 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

"As a cis gay man" sees username

Sure Jan.

[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

As an actual cis gay man, I don't think I would ever preface something with "as a cis gay man."