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[–]Rosefield 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

but lo and behold I spot another "no Asians" sign posted on the lawn. The next house has another, and the next, and the next and it gets to a point where "no Asians" is a well-known phenomena. Finally I get to a party that welcomes people like me and it's great, but what kind of affect did the first few have on me? What happens when next week it's the same thing?

This poster is 1. Comparing asian men to women on steroids larping as gay men and 2. Comparing gay men's bodies to houses and says not letting him inside is discrimination. If gay men's bodies are houses then he is a potential intruder & rapist.

[–]deliciousdogfoodmy name isnt a puppyplay reference i swear 11 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Also the entire metaphor is just gatecrashing random strangers' parties.

[–]fuck_reddit 15 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

“I think a lot of people haven’t examined their preferences” um idk about you but i spent years ruminating about my sexuality and preferences, so leave me the fuck alone.

[–]jim_steak 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I wish these creepy fetishists would take their own advice for once and examine their preferences for gay men and women; of course that might require some self awareness and willingness to change, so I won't hold my breath.

[–]GreykittymommaMagical lady 💜 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah how stupid can you be. I like certain features and types of people. I love asian features and languages especially Japanese and I get shit for being a 'rice queen'. You can't win with these people. I don't like muscular men or butch women usually but love eyeliner on guys. I am soooo fucking evil! How dare I love women with curly or red hair. How dare I love the looks of a certain celebrity...

I should love all these nasty man-women and dickless transbois instead, yeah no thanks.

Also, if I did like them I would be an evil 'chaser'!

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

In the past it used to be a virtue to be attracted to the least amount of people possible. Ideally you're only attracted to your spouse and that's it, and your spouse is only attracted to you and that's it, and you two live happily and monogamously ever after.

This "BE ATTRACTED TO EVERYBODY OR ELSE YOU'RE A MONSTER" in a way also promotes promiscuity and polyamory. What if a straight woman re-examines her attractions and decides she is actually super-attracted to trans women, so she goes on dating apps and starts dating a whole army of them. Are they going to be okay with being one out of many girlfriends, and sharing her, or are they looking for monogamy?

Right now they are screeching and whining about just being able to get their foot in the door where the dating scene is concerned but where does this 'be attracted to everybody' path lead?

Do these people even want monogamy? Because they remind me of fuckboys who just want to get their dicks wet with as many women as possible so that they can go tell their other fuckboy friends about it.

I also ask this because I've seen lesbians get harassed about giving a specific trans person in the friend group a chance even after they said they already had a girlfriend or "I have a crush on somebody else."

[–]panderichthys 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Jesus Christ that was depressing.