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[–]ThiccDropkickGay 34 insightful - 2 fun34 insightful - 1 fun35 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

A sub like that would be a ghost town anyway. They’re only in lesbian subs to feel validated by being in a space for real lesbians.

[–]chandra 17 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

And yet they still feel so invalidated! They will never find a solution that satisfies them because there is an irresolvable tension between making real lesbians want to stick around, and heavily policing what real lesbians want to discuss because it's invalidating to be reminded that nearly all real lesbians only like real women and not obvious men in frumpy dresses.

[–]insta 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They will never find a solution that satisfies them

Because so much of it is about attractiveness. Listen to MTF (interested in men, so not transbians) stories about transitioning and so many of them have a happy story that's completely centered of them thinking a man wants to fuck them.