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[–]winterwillow 34 insightful - 9 fun34 insightful - 8 fun35 insightful - 9 fun -  (3 children)

I'm willing to bet a lot on that this person received a polite 'no, no new partners because of covid' and continue to press 'is it because I' m traaaaaans???!!?' just to get another polite answer, so she could write an insta post on how rude giving a reason is.

Also I hate how creepy and weirdly puritanical these so called' sex-positive' trans people are. 'You don't have have to remove your underwear, you don't have to touch someone's genitals, you don't have to be aroused to have sex, there are so many toys and ways to go about'. Well sorry for wanting to have sex naked with someone I'm physically attracted to, how old-fashioned and cissexist of me!

[–]8bitgay 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

They have this weird mix of being too explicit/fetishizing and too puritanical. On one hand they won't stop talking about how gay men love their front holes, how lesbians love girldick.

On the other hand, in their handbook there is no possibility of gay men being interested in dick. Sex is irrelevant, the important part is the pure love towards gender. The idea that some gay men go to glory holes just to suck dicks is impossible to their views, since it implies that we could be attracted to male parts without caring about how the person attached to the dick identifies.

[–]winterwillow 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Exactly. And transbians trying to convince lesbians to have sex with them because dysphoria/no piv/'mouthfeel' like lesbians don't have any sexual desires at all, we just don't want dick and need convincing otherwise. But for some reason I never see transbians trying to convince lesbians that their asshole is just like a pussy. Funny that.

[–]SillyMoneyGoose 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You’re right, I never noticed this shade of misogyny on their part before. It seems that, like religious conservatives, they can’t even imagine women’s sexuality aside from being passive, or accepting things done to us