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[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 61 insightful - 12 fun61 insightful - 11 fun62 insightful - 12 fun -  (3 children)

Lmao, I am so not surprised.

He, Jim Sterling and Contra were close friends, and all 3 came out as women or "non-binary" women now. All bisexual men, who were gender non-conforming last 5+ years.

And I am a bit sad about it, actually. In his videos, when he found out he is bisexual and said he was for years fighting his love for men and he hated himself for it, and then came out as bisexual half a year ago. Then he started to be friends with Jim and Contra, and now seems he is fighting that self hate of bisexuality under the Contra influence became "I guess I am woman really". Jim came out as "non-binary woman" just two weeks ago, after meeting with Contra too.

This ideology is just gay convversion therapy and extremely homophobic and biphobic.

[–][deleted] 35 insightful - 3 fun35 insightful - 2 fun36 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

As a women I find it bizarre. I watched the first few minutes of the video and then I picked one of his videos from two years ago and I couldn't honestly say that this guy is particularly feminine or effeminate. I've met guys in real life like him too. They're not effeminate in how they behave or think and then suddenly they're a "woman" and you're meant to treat them like a woman. It's jarring. I went to school with a guy who was effeminate and this ain't that. I'm not going to sit down and have a conversation with this guy about the stuff I would talk to most girls about - like trash tv, or gossip a bit. I remember trying to open up to one about a difficult experience (we had both gone through similar experiences) and they weren't empathetic in the way that I would expect a woman to be. It was like reading those posts in r/relationships where they tell the guy that when girls tell them about their problems most of the time they don't want them to be 'fixed' they want a bit of empathy and then light bulbs go off in these dudes' heads. But back to my point - these guys aren't effeminate, they don't behave or think much like women. As I women I have no idea how to interact with them. I don't know how to connect with them or trust them like I would with a woman.

[–]Franklintheturtle 26 insightful - 7 fun26 insightful - 6 fun27 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

I saw a recent video of an anime Youtuber whose videos I'd come across a few years ago. He was a very stereotypical guy in the videos, but in the more recent one he was in like a women's business suit, to do a video about anime ships. Turns out he came out as trans. Even now, the only thing stereotypically feminine about him is the way he dresses.

[–]powpowpowpow 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I used to watch him from time to time and when I saw him in that suit I thought he was doing it for a joke? Since it was obviously a male in a wig... but apparantly not. I'm sad now.