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[–]chazzstrong 22 insightful - 9 fun22 insightful - 8 fun23 insightful - 9 fun -  (5 children)

I already see how this panned out...
Elliot: What do you MEAN you want a divorce? I became a man, just like you wanted!
Emma: But I'm a lesbian, Elliot. I don't WANT a man.

Getting serious Clayton Bigsby shade from this.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 24 insightful - 4 fun24 insightful - 3 fun25 insightful - 4 fun -  (4 children)

Isn't Emma was calling herself fluid and said that "my identity is unusual and it is not to disclose publicly", while being very supportive of transgenders? And Ellen never said she is a man, she said she is "not a woman, just trans" with "he/they" pronouns, she stopped using any social media after declaring of being a trans. Plus article is stating that Ellen was trying to divorce for 6 months already, so long before transing.

Situation is very strange.

[–]chazzstrong 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Probably. I'll admit, I have no clue who Emma is, and I'm not a 'celebrity' person so I know nothing about their relationship. I just feel like Elliot never really looks happy or in control. Every picture I saw of them together when they were in the news, it looked like the only thing missing was a leash around her neck feeding into her wife's hands.
She always struck me as the 'whatever makes you happy' type, you know?

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah, Emma always was looking so in control and so cold, while Ellen was always so cherishing and happy, but after they got married, each month Ellen mood and personality was going into decline, with her appearance on social media less and less. I would not be surprised if transing to an "anything but the woman" was last try of Ellen to save the marriage (considering how cold and not personal her "come out" was, and how neutral she was after - unlike her coming out as lesbian, when she was very happy, open and it was very personal). Of course, it could be the opposite, she could become depressed and harass Emma - but it is very unlikely, Ellen never was such person and always was very open.

Emma never had a history with women before Page too, she said that she is fluid sexuality (bisexual, I guess?) few times, and she was very closed person. Challenging divorce is a very controlling move as well, most abusers are doing so in heterosexual marriages. So I am not sure what to think - I am more on a side of Ellen, to be honest.

I thought that Ellen and Emma should divorce in 2018-2019 already, and all this mess only proved my thoughts that Ellen is very unhappy in marriage. Now it is different, thought, as Emma is getting harassed for two things, from two opposite sides - "making Ellen betray lesbians" and for "being transphobic and leaving trans". So she isn't very happy either.

[–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 13 insightful - 4 fun13 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

This is total speculation though. Maybe Emma is the normal one and Ellen was just a very needy/emotionally unstable spouse. Some people are like emotional vacuums, always demanding emotional support and never giving. It's completely possible that Emma just doesn't like cameras so doesn't photograph well, and got sick of being with mentally ill wife.

[–]Seahorse 6 insightful - 5 fun6 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

I know I've read about the wife so called transing Ellen and I don't believe it.

Ellen has been firmly on the TRA wagon for years.