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[–]NonimeTired of Explaining Reality to Fuckwits (TERF) 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I can't help but wonder if there were any signs before this happened. There's no way this is just out of the blue. I know many men in my life and NONE of them would ever do this.

[–]our_team_is_winning 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There were warning signs:

<Ben wanted to try new things.... he'd been watching more porn and stuff, and he said something he was really getting into was crossdressing..... I was more than happy to try it out with him. We both enjoyed ourselves and it became a more regular thing in the bedroom for us....Ben began cross dressing around the house in a non-sexual context. I am well-acquainted with transgender issues, I have always thought of myself as an ally>

Porn, cross dressing, her acceptance of it, her "trans ally" pride... The moment he says porn and cross dressing: goodbye.