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[–]panderichthys 36 insightful - 15 fun36 insightful - 14 fun37 insightful - 15 fun -  (3 children)

You're quite literally 19/20 of the female population. Another 19/20 of the male population are able to find you attractive by default. Even if half of all straight men think you're disgusting or simply aren't into you, that's still two billion men. If we cut that in half to leave out all the boys and old men, that's still a billion. And if we cut that in half again, twice, to account for all the taken men, you still have over 250 million potential partners. If you're still having trouble meeting someone, let's just say the problem probably isn't with "tHosE eViL cIs mEn"

[–]8bitgay 29 insightful - 4 fun29 insightful - 3 fun30 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah, that. Even if you considered that transmen are just like cis men, the reality is still that there are more straight men than gay/bi men. And many gay/bi men are afraid of being open about their sexuality due to homophobia.

This is an issue we all pass as gay men. We simply have to accept that we have less dating options than straight people. It's interesting that they claim they are real gay men, but when confronted with an actual situation that gay men face they just genderhack their way out of it.

[–]reluctant_commenter 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's interesting that they claim they are real gay men, but when confronted with an actual situation that gay men face they just genderhack their way out of it.

It's because transmen want to pick and choose when they have to be gay men, just like transwomen pick and choose which parts of being a "woman" or a "lesbian" they want to experience.

[–]Eurowoman24 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

ah yes girl mode.. not privilege there!