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[–]begonia_skies 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I feel the same way, so it is not just you! I also tried dating apps for a short period but it really didn't work out for a variety of reasons, but dating as a lesbian is really hard. I feel like it is to the point that I'm willing to compromise on things currently that I would have never considered in the past. It's tough, I think I am fairly well balanced, well educated, in good physical shape and it's almost annoying to know I could easily find someone if I was straight, but my career is hard and forces me to move around, it sounds exciting to most at first but eventually, they always leave. Honestly, for you - giving dating apps another try might worth it. Given the current status of the world bars and group meet ups just really aren't a thing right now, so apps might be your best point of contact. Yes, it is annoying to sort through all the couples, men, etc. but your person is out there looking for you too!

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What things would you compromise? I would never compromise on certain characters trait, like I won't never want to live in a relationship with someone don't compatible with my character or where I have to act differently than what I really am. Better alone, than in an unhappy relationship. Yeah, human need relationships, but if they make you feel shitty, itìs better to stay by yourself and get some pets and hobby to feel the void of human touch