RantSad watching so many lesbians and bi women rejecting womanhood

submitted by oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ from self.LGBDropTheT

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[–]PeakingPeachEaterfemale♀ | detrans🦎 | eater of peaches 🍑 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

No, I haven't been on Reddit for a couple of years but I'm on Ovarit under a different user. However, it's been awhile since I really commented of posted on Ovarit. I like that Ovarit is a female-only space but...I don't follow any idealogy.

I remembered talking to you about being gender non-conforming in an opposite-sex relationship---sorry for jumping to conclusion thinking you were bi! I am GNC bi woman in opposite-sex relationship too.

[–]worried19 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Good to see you over here. Ha, I feel kind of fractured juggling Saidit, Reddit, and Ovarit. Of the three, I like Ovarit best, although they don't have a debate circle, so I still hang around on Saidit mostly for s/GCdebatesQT.

I always felt like it would make more sense if I were bisexual, but I don't seem to be. As far as I can tell. My sexual orientation was a lot clearer to me than my gender. I think that was why I questioned if I was trans because I figured if I wasn't a lesbian, there was no reason for me to be so masculine. Luckily I found GC thought before I wandered too far down that path.

[–]PeakingPeachEaterfemale♀ | detrans🦎 | eater of peaches 🍑 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Maybe I should go back to Reddit...I've made/deleted many accounts over the years for anonyminity. I still have one left that's a lurker account that I haven't touched.

That's actually really smart to go to s/GCdebatesQT in order to not be stuck in an echo chamber. Currently, for me, at work, I'm STUCK in a QT/super liberal echo chamber so I come to this sub, the GC sub, s/bisexuals, etc to have some sanity away from it. I'll have to take a look at that debate sub though, it's good to question why we believe something and it can help strengthen your argument/beliefs too!

I can relate in regards to sexual orientation bring clearer than gender...Although, where you thought you were bi, I thought I was a lesbian at the time(in denial), so tried to transition to be "straight" and fit-in as "normal". Yeah, I didn't/don't mind being masculine but hate how I got treated when I was hyper masculine...I "toned it down" quite a bit...I guess...

Same! Happy that I found GC as well!

[–]worried19 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Reddit is mostly a cesspool, but I still hang out there for r/antikink. I dip into other subs once in a while, but it's not like it used to be.