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[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 12 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 3 fun -  (23 children)

An awful time to be a lesbian? Trying being a lesbian decades ago. Just find someone normal. There are normal lesbians, not everyone is into gender ideology, especially in Europe. I'm sad, but to be honest, I got much more important shit to worry about than delusional women

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (22 children)

"Just find someone normal" Any tips on how to find someone normal? Genuinely asking.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (20 children)

It can be sheer luck. Like randomly strumbling upon an amazing incredible perfect math, woman from Ukraine, who you hope one day could be your actual girlfriend.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

LMAO, stahp :D

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Life is a matter of luck. You can find the most amazing beautiful woman in the world just like when you least expect it ;)

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Making me blush on public again!

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Just saying the true

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (15 children)

Well I was hoping to be someone from my country at least lmao. Especially because I don't know if I even want a gf (maybe something more casual) so physical contact is important to me

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (14 children)

Use tinder. If only casual then you shouldn't care about their character. Character only matter when you want something serious. Which is what I want.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (13 children)

No. Just because I want something more casual, it doesn't mean I want to bang anyone lmao.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (12 children)

Not anyone, but really for casual thing you can find bisexuals who are usually pretty normal. For serious things, then is way more difficult to find someone compatible. But you live in Portugal, gender ideology isn't bad in South Europe. At least for now

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (11 children)

😂😂😂 Look, I'm surrounded by straight males, were in the middle of a pandemia, I can't download "known" apps like Tinder because I really don't want any of my straight male classmates to find me there and bi people are usually the ones who tend to be more TRA. In fact, what I see the most in Portugal, is TRA bi people. And how do you know I'm from Portugal?? I practically don't see lesbians. Maybe one in every 5 or 6 bi people at best. In Portugal, we're late but it isn't necessarily that good because we're heading in the same direction and because we're so late, most people won't understand where I'm coming from and think I'm just a hateful person while I'm seeing the gender ideology kicking in my country. If you don't know how to help besides saying "just do", then just don't answer lmao.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (10 children)

I know you're from Portugal because we spent days chatting, but you were less bitter in the past :D

There is no other way to meet homosexual /bi women than dating sites. You could go in so gay specific places, but then you will likely find a lot of trans ideology. Dating site allow you to access a lot of women you will ever meet. Nobody can't help you if you're afraid to use them because of people knowing. I doubt someone else can give you any better advice than this

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Giggle is female only, and there some for dating. But there not as much women as in other places, but they are there much less into gender ideology.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

I don't know you, sorry... Have a nice day

[–]HelloMomo 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

My new strategy is that on my bumble profile I straight up say that gender identities are a deal-breakers for me (along with habitual pot use, and her having a boyfriend).