Well, I think they are better than the creepy ones. At the very least, they gave up on the idea that they have been traumatized by their male bodies and accepted that women don't want them, and so no longer go after lesbians if they ever did. The ones that whine about about how seeing another transwoman triggers them are worse because they are either even more delusional or manipulative.

While neither is great, there is a lesser of two evils as everything bad the gay couples do is also done within what the fetishists do regularly.

If we follow baby steps, it may be beneficial in the long run to first get transbians to date eachother and at least slow the rate of harrasment against lesbians until the rate of transitioning can be slowed and ultimately stopped. Gay men are sort of protected by straight men that come in to satisfy the 'gay' transmen out there, even if it is highly manipulative in and of itself.