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[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I didn't take any offense, I completely understood where you were coming from. I know how it all works, I've been out for 30+ years.

As far as sex and relationships go, I am happier than I've ever been in my life: monogamously partnered (legally married) to the best man in the world as far as I'm concerned. I echo the sentiment he expressed to me a week ago: "there's nobody else I'd rather be in lockdown with."

I have no desire to relieve the trendy nightclub years (not that I ever spent huge amounts of time in nightclubs).

[–]deliciousdogfoodmy name isnt a puppyplay reference i swear 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm very happy for you. I was lucky to find someone else who didn't really want to be on the trendy nightclub scene too and got out of there quickly. I find the whole thing very distasteful and degrading, and the glorification of the promiscuity and self-destruction that goes with it is one of the biggest issues I have with mainstream LGB culture.

I can't imagine what dating must be like now with the weirdness that has overtaken LGB spaces.