I remember back when I was in the trans cult, had changed my pronouns online, started binding, etc I still had doubts about the validity of transgenderism. I remember googling 'does transgenderism reinforce stereotypes?' and of course all the sites said 'no' without any solid reasoning to back up why not. The only sites that made any sense said things like 'being trans is about being uncomfortable with your gender, not about what toys or clothes you like.' And I thought, okay, but then they'd go on to say 'i Knew I was trans because I always played with the boys as a kid and I hated wearing dresses.' Like??? You just?? Fine. Whatever. I peaked about a year later. You're absolutely right that trans-ness is all about stereotypes and setting us backward.