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[–]ThrowMeAway2879 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Jeezus that thread. I (almost) wish every gay men who says "of course I would, they are men" would then actually have to (try and) carry through on that claim. It's terribly easy to say you're all woke and "open-minded" separated safely from any vagina behind your computer screen. But I'd wager they'd change their tune if they'd be confronted with the stark biological reality of it.

But then again: We'll never know how many respondents are actually gay and not simply bi.

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 23 insightful - 6 fun23 insightful - 5 fun24 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

I think that's a case with a lot of this bullshit, to be honest. It's easy to be agreeable when you're not actually having the conversation.

Tina might say she's perfectly happy to welcome Margaret, the 6'5", 230lb competitor into female sporting events, but Tina is a fat schlub who doesn't do much more exercise than this.

[–]Shadow_Lurker 18 insightful - 6 fun18 insightful - 5 fun19 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

I (almost) wish every gay men who says "of course I would, they are men" would then actually have to (try and) carry through on that claim.

They are lying lol

If this wasn't the case Aideens would not be complaining 24/7 about gay men not wanting to fuck them.

[–]jiljol 10 insightful - 4 fun10 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

It's terribly easy to say you're all woke and "open-minded" separated safely from any vagina behind your computer screen. But I'd wager they'd change their tune if they'd be confronted with the stark biological reality of it.

Reminds me of uber woke pro-twanz warrior Owen Jones going full BSOD upon being questioned about his experience performing cunnilingus on trans"men".

[–]denverkrisMy pronouns are Vodka?/Yes!/please 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I fail to see how there's any difference between being pegged by a transman and being pegged by a woman, and neither of those activities is homosexual. As a bi woman, having sex with a man is totally different from having sex with a woman no matter how butch that woman is. The whole thing is just creepy, and I guarantee you that any truly gay man who actually goes through with letting a transman peg him is going to feel creepy afterwards.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Not to mention the implications for sex between women involving a dildo or strap-on. Are the situations involving a woman using a dildo on another woman and a man using the same dildo on the same woman both engaging in homosexual activity? What if the dildo is being used anally? Are they now engaging in gay man sex?

Like where is the logic in any of this?

[–]denverkrisMy pronouns are Vodka?/Yes!/please 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"Not to mention the implications for sex between women involving a dildo or strap-on"

The creepy ass transwomen already use these arguments to try to say it's the same thing so they can attempt to gaslight lesbians into sleeping with them. It isn't.

"Like where is the logic"

There isn't any. Today's youth are being taught that their own, personal feelings are THE most important thing in the world, and that the rest of the world is under some obligation to give a fuck about their feelings. They seem to have zero critical thinking skills.

[–]Shadow_Lurker 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Pegging.

That's the word you are looking for, pegging

Also lol, automod:

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Some gay men will date a transgender man and some gay men won't. It's a personal preference, like most other things in dating.

It's NOT necessarily transphobic to not prefer dating men with genitals you're not attracted to. But it IS transphobic to decide or imply that a transgender man is not a man just because some gay men don't prefer to date them. Trans men can be as different from each other as any other men might be. They're JUST MEN. And they're a part of our community. Please treat them with respect.

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[–]Rosefield 17 insightful - 5 fun17 insightful - 4 fun18 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Please treat them with respect.

TRANSlation:

Kiss their asses & validate them 24/7

[–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Damn that reads exactly like the "on trans women and dating" rule on AL, just with the sexes flipped. Damn they really do demand conformity.

[–]Shadow_Lurker 17 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Damn they really do demand conformity.

Submission, they want total submission.

Spoiler: that's never going to happen.

[–]BigMommyMilkersYes, they're real 12 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

It's missing the "with enough forethought you might not need a surrogate to have kids, as your partner can carry!" and "would you rule out someone because he had 6 toes? I feel sorry for any gay man who thinks a penis should be included in his sexual activity; when I hear a gay man rule out a partner because of the presence of a hidden vagina I feel sorry for his partner, because how superficial is that?"

[–]RippoffOfLoveSStraight | Overuses quotation marks 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's NOT necessarily transphobic to not prefer dating men with genitals you're not attracted to.

If you think this is true, ask a TRA what the word is for being attracted only to male genitals. Many will simply respond "it's called being a bigot."

[–]diapason 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They just say that to seem more reasonable than they actually are (and also to gaslight)

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 17 insightful - 4 fun17 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Seriously. So many cis gay guys really seem to think that trans men are by definition the "ultimate bottom", and/or a novelty fuck allowing them to try PIV sex while looking at a face with a beard. This really, really is not the case, and these assumptions are pretty damn fucked up.

Sure Jan. Maybe she means the homosexual “trans men” that end up dating each other or other women?

[–]fuck_reddit 14 insightful - 7 fun14 insightful - 6 fun15 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Gotta love that the question is frequently asked and so frequently called out as BS that the mods have an automatically generated comment reminding everyone to turn off their brains and repeat the TMAM mantra...

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 6 fun7 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

yes

[–]CheesyPeas 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

/r/agb is the most based gay subreddit. /r/askgaymen is nothing but /r/lgbt cucks. Lying for karma.

No GAY man will ever sleep with a trans 'man'. Ever. They are all just lying. You get banned on that sub for wrong think so they all tow the CCPartyline.