i get that there's a twist with cis lesbians since women have been pressured into serving cis male dicks their whole lives and so it makes sense for them to develop an aversion to dick, but everyone has a responsibility to sort through trauma responses that are informed by bigoted ideas.

these people don't understand anything about gay people. I was never raped or molested, and I'm not "leaning in" to any bigoted ideas about trans or men. I never "developed an aversion to dick" I'm just not fucking interested in it! B/c I'm fucking gay! These TRAs tie themselves into knots and come up with increasingly convoluted explanations to avoid the obvious.

I'd be interested in a survey like that. I keep worrying that I won't be able to date because of it, and some reassurance would be nice

That survey is going to be biased as shit, man. All the actual lesbians on AL have been banned, bullied, or brainwashed that they should lie b/c it's kind. It's not fucking kind, it gives Jeffrey above false hope and false expectations. And men like that tend to be fucking violent to women when the illusion is broken (ie she rejects him IRL).

Threads like that really make me think, if these men got the truth when they first came to AL and not "kind lies" most of them wouldn't even transition. They'd weigh the reality of their options, and just stay straight men. The one's who'd choose to be celibate and alone probably wouldn't pose any threat to lesbians anyway.