Like I said in the Assigned Male thread: they're clearly stuck on desperate teenage boy logic where it isn't akshully technickuly rape because they aren't using force or getting someone too drunk to stand up. They don't give two fucks about enthusiastic consent or being "sex positive," it's just lip service, like a scuzzy "male feminist" trying to tell his girlfriend that she's sexually repressed and obeying the patriarchy by keeping her asshole shut.