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[–]julesburm1891 37 insightful - 1 fun37 insightful - 0 fun38 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

It just bothers me when people with no PTDS [sic] are rude about it

So, now women have to have PTSD to say no to sex with men? Do these guys even hear how rapey they sound?

[–][deleted] 31 insightful - 4 fun31 insightful - 3 fun32 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

They go on about how they aren't obligated to share their "full medical history," so why should I have to share rather or not I have PTSD in order to say no?

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

BOOM! Add this one to the vault.

I was just commenting that they would be harassing women until they reveal they have PTSD at which point maybe some of them will see that as a good enough excuse but I failed to connect this to one of their main talking points, as you have. The projection and hypocrisy are extraordinary, and that entire thread is a monument to that.

[–]ChodeSandwichtender and moist 28 insightful - 4 fun28 insightful - 3 fun29 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Like I said in the Assigned Male thread: they're clearly stuck on desperate teenage boy logic where it isn't akshully technickuly rape because they aren't using force or getting someone too drunk to stand up. They don't give two fucks about enthusiastic consent or being "sex positive," it's just lip service, like a scuzzy "male feminist" trying to tell his girlfriend that she's sexually repressed and obeying the patriarchy by keeping her asshole shut.

[–]hellonumpty 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Also like how much do you wanna bet that women without trauma who are rude about it are rude because they are constantly being harassed about it. Every time they say 'no' the response is always, "but what if...." etc. I think anyone who is being worn down has the right to be rude.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have PTSD for reasons that have nothing to do with men or penises, but why should I or anyone else be forced to identify ourselves as having PTSD just to have sexual boundaries. It’s disgusting. The idea that they will harass women/lesbians until, at best, they reveal they have PTSD is disgusting. And even some are saying that PTSD is still not a good enough excuse. Pigs.

[–]denverkrisMy pronouns are Vodka?/Yes!/please 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Well of course not, because clearly they believe that women were put on this earth to give a fuck about men's feelings.