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[–]Lesbianese 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Was a hardcore TRA, got trans'd as a kid. Slowly began desisting in my mid/late teens, embarrassingly clung to the "nonbinary woman" label for months out of fear of cruelty from TRAs. By the time I had completely desisted, so had my best friend, which made it really easy to work through it. Had been reading Kiwi Farms threads for a while at this point but was still too woke to read any thread that was specifically a trans lolcow until Yaniv, I think. Read a bunch of AGP threads, realized there were a ton of fetishists in the trans community and snowballed from there.

Pretty firmly anti trans now, I don't believe in treating trans like what they identify as even if they "pass". Just because you're a man with a fuck ton of cosmetic surgery or a woman with too much testosterone, doesn't make you the opposite sex. Think they need therapy, not surgery.

[–]reluctant_commenter 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Really interesting to hear your perspective. I'm so glad you were able to desist and make it out, dude.