It's good you "woke" up in the time that you did. Yes, pun was intended, sorry. The thing with TRAs calling people "TERFS", has essentially lost meaning at this point.

Gay male - doesn't want vagina & wants a biological male = "TERF"

Heterosexual male - doesn't want penis & wants a biological female = "TERF"

Heterosexual female - doesn't want vagina & wants a biological male = "TERF"

Bisexual male - doesn't want vagina attached to a biological male, doesn't want penis attached to a biological female. When he's with a woman, he wants a biological woman. When he's with a man, he wants a biological male. = "TERF"

Bisexual female - doesn't want vagina attached to a biological male, doesn't want penis attached to a biological female. When she's with a woman, she wants a biological woman. When she's with a man, she wants a biological male.

Last but CERTAINLY not least

Lesbians (seems to be the most targeted of the TRAs & we know why that is) - doesn't want penis & wants to be with a biological female. = "TERF"

Notice how the word biological kept showing up in my rundown of just basic sexual orientations. Heck, the TRAs don't even like that term, which is just another term for reality. TERF basically is a commendation badge now, because you're not ashamed of your sexual orientation & won't be "converted" otherwise. 2020 is insane, when you have heterosexuals having to damn near come out & say that they're not ashamed of their heterosexuality. Can you really believe that? Wow, crazy times.

I'm glad you found this sub & others can help you cope with being in the 'Twilight Zone', & the knowing that you're not alone.