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[–]Willpoll 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Alright. The first thing you have to realize is that all that matters in this situation is how you think. you don't owe anyone the knowledge of you being a lesbian and that knowledge is yours to do with as you will. If you don't feel comfortable being out to anyone right now then you don't have to be out to anyone. Is it just alot of straight guys in your degree, or do you know them well enough to point them out outside of the classroom?

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Thank you for your answer, I really appreciate it. I'm not sure I quite understood your last answer, but my degree is really full of straight men. I know there's a gay guy, basically the only guy with whom I was able to make some connection with. But women and gay guys are definitely more like the minority here. Unfortunately :/ I just would like to know how to meet other women without being out. I think it's impossible 😅

[–]Willpoll 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

no worries for not understanding it lol. I was asking if you see those guys anywhere besides the classroom because it stands to reason that if you don't see them out and about too much you could safely come out to a couple close friends if you feel like it.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yes, I dont have any contact with them besides the classroom. I'm still getting to know people from my class, but yes, I'm going to see if I'm safe with the close friends I've been getting to know lately. Thank you.