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[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I would instantly lose attraction to a woman I was seeing if I learned that she had a kid. Not because I hate kids or parents. I am just in no position to be dating someone with a child, I'm not up for that kind of relationship, and it's a deal-breaker. There are a million things that would cause us to lose attraction.