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[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Lol yep so it was. It’s a sad mental place to be aware of your attraction for the same sex and not the opposite sex but to still draw the conclusion that you must actually like the opposite sex and just need to try harder and that your same-sex attraction isn’t real.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It was one of reasons why I had married. We even were working with sexologist, and tried everything, I really tried to like men and to get aroused from them. It was very exhausting experience. To my luck my ex-husband was very good and respecting human being, so it was not as harsh as it could be otherwise.

At first before I know homosexuality is a thing, I tried really hard to like men. And then after dating with a woman, and knowing who I am, I was wanting be become straight so all the hate will stop (I suffered physical attacks, got fired from job, etc), so again ended in "I wish I could like men, it would make life so much easier".

And now TRA comes and saying "sexuality is just a preference", "it is easy to unlearn your genital bias for homosexuals". I wish their words were true and we really could change our sexual orientation, but sadly, they are full of bullshit and are just plain homophobia.