LesbianLesbians are heteronormative because they wont make the first move... on a man.

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[–]peaked2020 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (17 children)

These comments seem strange to me... this is a problem that affects practically all lesbians. Women are generally not very upfront. Particularly if you’re butch, many women do expect you to be a pseudo man. I understand how they feel and think this is frustrating too...

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 9 insightful - 8 fun9 insightful - 7 fun10 insightful - 8 fun -  (16 children)

Yeah, I'm pretty sure women specifically into butches expect the passive role like in an hetero relationship.Femminexfemmine there is no expectation. But I have to admit, men really got it hard.

Women to men: "he must be tall, confident, have a good job, good look, make me laugh,make the first move and being interesting"

Men to women "just don't be fat"

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 15 insightful - 13 fun15 insightful - 12 fun16 insightful - 13 fun -  (15 children)

must be tall

The straight girls who require any potential guy to be 6ft+ have always perplexed me. Like girl you're 5'1, do you really need your guy to be 6'0 instead of 5'11?

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 15 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 2 fun -  (14 children)

It's a psychological thing, there is no real difference between the two, but 6 sound much bigger, that's why vendor write shit like 0,99 dollar rather than 1 . Short guys got it so brutal and height isn't something you can change. I'm very short, I've accepted the fact that my girlfriend is always going to be taller and isn't a problem. But I could never see myself with a girl one foot taller. I mean, what counts is character and cute face and not bone lenght, but there is a point when height difference just means discomfort. And don't get all these short girls refusing short guys and going to the one way taller. Must to be sexual disphormism or something. But the reality as a very short dude is rough and they dont' make up dumb nickname against women who don't want to date them like men in dresses

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (13 children)

Yeah, I've always felt bad for short hetero dudes. They've definitely got a tough time finding dates. And while the mtfs chose to indulge their fetishes, they didn't choose to be short so they have more reason to feel upset. But they still aren't half as butthurt as the mtfs when women don't date them.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

It is some western (or american, as I see feet) thing? Here women in general want their man to be slightly taller than them, not a towering giants, and there almost no one is saying "man need to be 182 cm or taller, 180 cm is too short" - I saw such memes only in american internet, to be honest, with 6' vs 5'11". And short men here are often very fit, so are popular even among women who are taller than them.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

In the rest of the west, 180cm (5'11) is the cutoff considered good height. Americans use strange measures, so for them is the equivalent of 182. 6ft, It's just a stupid mental thing

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Interesting, here women (and men) are not obsessed with height that much (or often at all). In most cases it is just "man must be at least slightly taller". My father is 157 cm, but he was very popular among women, and still is. Mother is 170 cm, same as me.

From what I've seen - only teens are starting to be obsessed with it, but I'd say it is tiktok, instagram and twitter influencing them.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Quite rare to see a woman dating a man shorter than her.It considered controversial, but it's really stupid mindset

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I thought this thing with 6" or 180 cm is mostly American thing, but seems it is European one too. Then our country is outdated and not very European.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 6 insightful - 6 fun6 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 6 fun -  (5 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/ChoosingBeggars/comments/7mn35n/im_411_if_you_arent_at_least_63_im_not_interested/

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Wow, she sounds like a real catch! One very lucky 6'3 guy is going to have the self absorbed girlfriend of his dreams. 🙄

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 8 insightful - 6 fun8 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 6 fun -  (3 children)

Her passion is being gorgeous LMAO

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

She took the time to write that long bio and still all she managed to convey is that she's boring af

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

She's cute though, and on tinder look matters more than anything else.